Brumblog

5 months

2012-02-03T07:53:00.001-05:00

This sweet baby hasn't had much blog space devoted to him, but he is oh-so deserving of it. Levi has followed in his older brothers footsteps as being such a sweet baby. He is also leading the way in the growth rate department! At his 4 month check up he was 16 lbs and 28 1/2" long...and at 4 1/2 months he cut his first bottom tooth. Today he is flashing his newest white trophy tooth which is holding its own right next to the former trophy....and explaining why all the tears yesterday. This last month brought the first roll-over moment with him--thus beginning the age of mobility! He still boasts the quietest cry of any Brumbaugh boy but is trying with all his might to make himself heard! His jabbering, however, is quite loud and his giggles are contagious! He adores the 3 older brothers God has given him and, I might add, he has 3 adoring fans 24 hours a day! This last month also welcomed his entrance into the boys' room. All 4 sweet boys stuffed in one room...and.they.will.have.it.no.other.way! I thought about splitting them up, but why spoil such simple pleasures for them?? Maybe it's crazy but we love it. I can't thank God sufficiently for these boys. My life is so full and blessed that I feel my heart is going to explode....right along with my brain;). My days are filled with very few tasks being completed...but because of Jesus I feel such incredible purpose and accomplishment as I battle on the front lines for these young souls. Rejoice in your calling for His glory today....whatever it may be! And happy 5 months sweet sweet Levi!

Appetites

2012-01-20T10:41:00.001-05:00

"4 boys? My, they are gonna eat you out of house and home." I can't even begin to tell you how many times I have heard the above statement. Teen boys' appetites are simply out of control from what I hear. However, how bout those toddler/preschooler appetites? I am so close to using an entire loaf of bread for lunchtime....I have to cook 2 boxes of macaroni for them...They can almost down an entire veggie tray by themselves... I have to use an entire dozen of eggs for scrambled eggs....sheesh! It blows me away and only 3 are at the food stage! Levi is sure to be the biggest appetite we have had so far and I cringe at the thought of how much it will take to fill him up! Therefore, this post is nothing more than a documentation of a first that is surely going to become the regular around here.

This morning was the momentous occasion when our 3 boys downed the entire 9oz. box of cereal in one meal. I usually don't do cereal because it doesn't seem too filling for them, but this morning I decided to let them eat until they stopped asking for more. I can't even remember how many bowls they each ate...I had a 3/4th cup serving which would have made this post a bit of an exaggeration. However, when I told the boys there was no more cereal, Titus so kindly informed me that there were more boxes in the garage. I opened up the 2nd box and used more than 3/4 cup, so my exaggeration is therefore nullified and my grocery bill: intensified!!

So put a pull-up on your head

2012-01-16T07:57:00.001-05:00

....and rejoice in your calling! God has equipped us, but sometimes His form of protection (from our fleshly attitudes) can come in odd packages!
This particular day I was beat! I was sitting on the couch nursing Levi and trying to catch my breath. I wanted to be discouraged at how little had been accomplished around me that day, but God extended encouragement and Truth to me that strengthened my Faith in His calling for my life. As I sat there nursing....my 3 boys came marching in with these pull ups on their head...I knew that meant they had been into the stash and probably had them spread out all over their room....however, the Lord just melted away my frustration and allowed me to join in the silliness with joy and imagination. What a fun memory....the giggles were plentiful and the clean-up was less messy than I anticipated...wink wink!
Be bold in your calling today and know that even though we fail miserably and our flesh wants to destroy our joy, God equips us perfectly through the work of Christ on our behalf....and in the midst of the craziness He is there, sealing you for His Glory and your future Hope!

Colossians 1:27-29 MSG
God wanted everyone, not just Jews, to know this rich and glorious secret inside and out, regardless of their background, regardless of their religious standing. The mystery in a nutshell is just this: Christ is in you, therefore you can look forward to sharing in God's glory. It's that simple. That is the substance of our Message. We preach Christ, warning people not to add to the Message. We teach in a spirit of profound common sense so that we can bring each person to maturity. To be mature is to be basic. Christ! No more, no less. That's what I'm working so hard at day after day, year after year, doing my best with the energy God so generously gives me.

Bubbles

2012-01-11T05:52:00.001-05:00

They are not allowed to blow bubbles at meal time, but this particular day was a fluids only day, so why not celebrate with a few exceptions??
They stood there blowing bubbles for more than 30 minutes! It's the simple things...

Stellar

2012-01-06T08:26:00.001-05:00

Just another glimpse of awesome style being expressed by the Brumbaugh boys. This photo was taken just a moment before we walked into church last Sunday. These boys LOVE ties and I'm wondering if their generation of boys will swing the pendulum back to the suits and ties for church style?? Or maybe its just an infatuation with the little clip. We will wait and see.

I was doing the dishes

2012-01-02T17:00:00.000-05:00

and had my back turned to the dining room where Levi was sitting in the high chair sweetly cooing and making raspberry noises with his mouth. I was warmed at the sound of Titus' deep voice sharing some important tidbit of information with Levi. Just then I heard little Levi begin whimpering and before I could dry my hands to go investigate the situation, I heard this funny statement:

Oh, Levi, don't cry! It's just me Titus wearing underwear on my head...don't be afraid.

which made me simply have to stop and indulge in a moment of audible laughter.

Year End Prayer

2012-01-01T21:21:00.001-05:00

This morning in our corporate meeting, we read this prayer together and it was a great blessing to me. It is taken from the Valley of Vision book of Puritan Prayers:

O Love beyond Compare,
Thou art good when thou givest,
when thou takest away,
when the sun shines upon me,
when night gathers over me.
Thou hast loved me before the foundation of the world,
and in love didst redeem my soul;
Thou dost love me still,
in spite of my hard heart, ingratitude, distrust.
Thy goodness has been with me another year,
leading me through a twisting wilderness,
in retreat helping me to advance,
when beaten back making sure headway.
Thy goodness will be with me in the year ahead;
I hoist sail and draw up anchor,
With thee as the blessed pilot of my future as of my past.
I bless thee that thou hast veiled my eyes to the waters ahead.
If thou hast appointed storms of tribulation,
thou wilt be with me in them;
If I have to pass through tempests of persecution and temptation,
I shall not drown;
If I am to die,
I shall see thy face the sooner;
If a painful end is to be my lot,
grant me grace that my faith fail not;
If I am to be cast aside from the service I love,
I can make no stipulation;
Only glorify thyself in me whether in comfort or trial,
as a chosen vessel meet always for thy use.

Christmas Memories 2011 Part 3

2011-12-31T00:03:00.000-05:00

This was our first year celebrating Christ's birth with our Trinity Church family. We began the celebration on December 2nd with our annual Christmas Festival for the Smyrna/Dover community.

Our Christmas Eve service at Trinity Church was one of my favorite parts of the Christmas Celebration for our family. We were excited to have such a large crowd come out and participate in a time of worship as we read and sang about Christ's birth from creation through redemption.

singing By Faith together -which warmed my heart as

I remembered this post

Trinity Church Christmas Eve dinner at Borelli's house

I am trying something new today

2011-12-30T00:22:00.000-05:00

and it is not even the new year yet!

I admire those of you who are able to read a book and give a helpful review of the contents of the book. I am not one of those gals! I read a book and usually LOVE it and rave about it and ramble on and on and on about its incredibleness*smile* and can't keep myself from sharing it with everyone and then when someone asks specific questions about it...I find myself - - speechless. (and yes, for any of my grammar teachers/friends reading this, I intentionally wrote a grammatically incorrect sentence...this time...for emPHasis) So, instead of trying to sit and review this book...I found a way to share a snippet with you. It's a short book with incredibly SHORT chapters designed for moms who are.in.need without the time to be.in.need! So, please enjoy this teaser and I do hope this nugget of gold will find itself on your bookshelf no matter what season of life you are in!

So...here ya go: you can thank me later!

Carmel Heavenlies

2011-12-29T05:00:00.000-05:00

I enjoyed all the extra help I had in the kitchen this Christmas season. I had such a wonderful time laughing and enjoying my boys as I passed on some of the fun recipes I learned and made as a kid. I'll post this quick delicious cookie recipe, but please note-they are so scrumptuous that you may want to make them with caution!

Ingredients:

Aluminum Foil

16 Graham Crackers

3/4 Cup Butter

3/4 Cups Brown Sugar

1 Tsp. Pure Vanilla

2 Cups Mini Marshmallows

2 Cups Sliced Almonds

2 Cups Shredded Coconut

Process:

Line baking sheet(s) with foil and spray with a non-stick cooking spray of your choice

Then line with graham crackers

use a pizza cutter to make crackers fit perfectly

sprinkle with 2 Cups Mini Marshmallows

spread the marshmallows out evenly

Melt the Butter and Sugar together in a small saucepan

over medium heat until it is smooth.

Remove from heat and add Vanilla.

Drizzle hot caramel sauce over marshamllows

be sure to coat as evenly as possible

Sprinkle 2 Cups sliced Almonds over Caramel sauce

Sprinkle 2 Cups Coconut over Almonds

Bake for 10-14 minutes in a 350 degree oven


you want the coconut and almonds to have a pretty roasted color and the marshmallows to be gooey!

Remove from oven and allow to cool for a few minutes

Cut with a pizza slicer

ENJOY

Christmas Memories 2011 Part 2

2011-12-28T05:00:00.001-05:00

My sister and brother-in-law hosted a wonderful Christmas Eve brunch for our Zimmerman Christmas this year. It was so enjoyable to be together as a family and begin forming new traditions together in what is our 'new normal'. We were blessed by the food, family, and fellowship and look forward to celebrating this tradition again in years to come.

the lovely host and hostess

Mr. and Mrs. Sanders Claus

the adult table...

the boys all enjoyed Mimi's blinking necklace

Presents

Grandy's right hand man-Ezra

litter bugs game. if you haven't played it-you are missing out

*cherish*

first time dad has been able to sit in a normal chair in almost 6 months!

dad finally got to see the new fireplace he has heard about for months

Christmas Memories 2011

2011-12-27T00:40:00.000-05:00

5 poses

256 photos...

0 pictures with everyone looking and smiling at the same time

75 marshmallows stuffed in mouths to encourage smiling cheeks

1 screaming baby

1 grumpy toddler

1 little 3 year old who can't be still

1 very un-enthused 5 year old who is old enough to fake a smile...thankfully

2 new cow watches from chick-fil-a that could not be parted with

2 lovebirds who still manage to notice one another above all the chaos

imperfect decorations

imperfect attire

imperfect people

who LOVE each other and enjoy imperfection perfectly

perfectly imperfect

love the expressions

thanks rebecca for your willingness to

come "shoot" our family.

I'm glad you have a quick trigger finger and good aim!

2 shirt Titus

2011-12-26T05:00:00.000-05:00

Titus loves to wear layers....I hate for my boys to layer:) He thinks it looks cool....I think it is a waste of clean laundry. However, now that the weather is cold, I don't mind if they layer up for Sundays (since they don't usually get filthy while at church). Last Sunday, I walked into the dining room and thought Titus' newest expression of fashion should be captured on film....

my first glimpse

love this stage of misaligned buttons.
It's so hard for him to grasp that
the bottom button is an extra button and doesn't have a hole
...it really bothers him *giggle*

I finally convinced him to try it with the sweater on the outside.
I *think* I sold him on the end result~

Merry Christmas

2011-12-25T05:00:00.000-05:00

From the Brumbaughs

Titus-5, Ezra-3, Simeon-2, Levi-3months

Up Close with Simeon

2011-12-24T05:00:00.000-05:00

Cuddly

Funny

Bold

Perceptive

Stubborn

Full of Pizzaz

Fast

Athletic

Engaging

Surprising

Short and Stout

All around a bundle full of mischief and surprises. You just never know what this little guy will do and/or say. He puts together the funniest sentences and often wows his audience with his specific and detailed requests. He is by far our shortest boy...still in 18 month clothes at 2 years old (and Levi is in 6 month clothes at 3 months), but this little boys packs quite the personality punch. I'm so thankful for this lithe boy and can't imagine my life without his funny antics and adorable expressions. And, by the way, this cocktail of personality traits has most certainly added a new dimension to the wonderfully complex toddler years.

always has a ball....and i mean always

blonde blonde blonde

did I mention happy??

long curly eyelashes

funny teeth

loves to give this innocent look....but don't be fooled!

still has no neck

chubbbbby cheeks

his version of "try not to get crumbs everywhere"

totally unaware

Gobble, Gobble, Gobble Bread

2011-12-23T05:00:00.000-05:00

a thanksgiving post in December is a bit odd...but hey, at least I'm updating, right?

This was our version of turkey this year. It was our first Thanksgiving at home by ourselves. What a wonderful day we had together. Mark actually decided to rearrange furniture in just about every room and we took the opportunity to move Levi into his new room.

We played, ate, talked, sang, and enjoyed a new tradition together.

Our meal was at 3:00 and the menu was simple:

Green Bean Casserole

Loaded Baked Sweet Potatoes

Corned Beef and Carrots

Gobble, Gobble, Gobble Bread

Our menu did not include turkey this year for various reasons. As I was preparing to shape the rolls on Wednesday night, the Lord brought a wonderful idea into my mind to shape the dough into a turkey. I shaped it Wednesday night and covered it in the refrigerator all night. I took it out Thursday morning and let it 'grow' all day long. Before I popped it into the oven I let the boys paint it with egg yolk paint, and needless to say, Tom was colorful and enjoyed by all! We will most certainly be including this Gobble, Gobble, Gobble Bread tradition in years to come.

I just love it when the Lord extends creativity to me. What a joy it is to have the Creator of this universe as an intimate friend!

Audio Resources

2011-12-22T05:00:00.000-05:00

I simply can't resist sharing these resources, as well as 5 new exciting additions to my iPod playlist.

edit: there were a few issues with the links, but they should all be working properly now.

Last year, I was so excited to discover RC Sproul's children's books:

The Prince's Poison Cup

I bought this one last year and
we all enjoy reading it
over.and.over.and.over.and.over

The King Without a Shadow

The Lightlings

This year, I was pleased as punch to look online and see that he has written 3 new ones:

The Priest Who Wore Dirty Clothes

The Barber Who Wanted to Pray

The Donkey Who Carried a King

(release date 01/16/12)

I also found this Christmas CD The Word Became Flesh which I highly recommend. I didn't care for the style of music, but the Biblical narrative from creation through the fall to redemption drew my heart, soul, and mind to worship Christ.

Last night, I added these 4 free Renewing Your Mind podcasts to my iPod playlist (via iTunes). The first 4 are audio recordings of 4 of the above books and the 5th podcast is a partial airing of the Christmas CD by RC Sproul.

These podcasts will only be available for download for a few more weeks, so I imagine these links will become useless by the end of January. However, each year, they rebroadcast stories around Christmas.

The Barber Who Wanted to Pray

The King Without a Shadow

The Lightlings
The Priest with Dirty Clothes

The Word Became Flesh

Hope you enjoy listening!!

Justin Taylor interviewed RC in 2008 about his (then) newest release The Prince's Poison Cup. I have linked to it here and I hope you will take the time to read it...as well as possibly purchase one of these wonderful resources for both parents and children alike.

Up Close with Ezra

2011-12-21T05:00:00.000-05:00

Helpful

Busy

Silly

Quiet

Expressive

Passionate

Inquisitive

Resourceful

Loving

crooked hairline

always using his hands

often has a dirty shirt...no matter how many times I make him change:)
.this kid is HARD on clothes!

often kissing Levi

rarely looks at the camera...but when he does, it's oh so worth all the effort!

Up close with Levi

2011-12-20T05:00:00.000-05:00

He is such a sweet baby.

Happy

Content

Patient

did I mention Happy?

Snuggly

Smiley

Sleeps great

Eats great....

VERY active *sigh*

I have been blessed with a 4th wonderful baby boy. However, as was just mentioned, this is my 4th, so I know just how quickly these "honeymoon" months go. (I consider the 5 months before mobility to be the "honeymoon" phase *smile*) I have held this little guy so much that my body often aches...but it is oh so worth it! Every pound of him just makes my heart melt as I try to soak in as much as I possibly can. Children are such a gift. anybody else agree??

his lips are so perfect...and those dark curly eyelashes are delicious!

most certainly another dark eyed heir

chins

squinty eyes

soft skin

I'm as determined to keep him from sucking his thumb as he is to suck it.
it's so adorable, but such a horrible habit to try and break!

chubby cheeks

Mohawk monday

2011-12-19T05:00:00.000-05:00

They all love a good mohawk now and then

Ezra kept was trying to cross his eyes for the picture...but this was the best he could do. He can cross his eyes randomly, but now yet on command.

Up Close with Titus

2011-12-18T05:00:00.000-05:00

kind

sensitive

happy

dramatic

obedient

tender

leader

strong

talkative (to put it mildly)

imaginative...

He is my precious son who makes this busy mama's job so much easier. I often just wish I could sit and soak up his thoughts on life...but I'm usually trying to get to many things done at once and I find myself not even hearing his voice amid the noise in my home and my brain. Oh, how fast he is growing and learning.....5 years have flown by and my heart winces at just how quickly these little years fly by.

I simply can't express my mother's heart with words, but I'm so thankful for this calling and I am asking the Spirit to continually flush out the busyness of my life so that I can be truly listening for His work in Titus' heart and life. What a joy this young man is to me.....*tears*

3 little monkeys...

2011-12-17T05:00:00.000-05:00

this would be why Levi will be sleeping in his own room for a few more weeks...I could hear the s queals and giggles (and thumping) all the way across the house. When I walked in, Titus was standing on the far end of the crib jumping over Simeon and landing on the crib mattress...all while Ezra balanced himself and was working his abs in the pike lift position.

Needless to say, their idea of fun together has prompted me to keep Levi separate for a few more weeks.

Soul Sisters

2011-12-16T00:01:00.000-05:00

February 2011

Andrea Morris....I miss you and I'm so sad you move to Hawaii today:( I wish we could sit and chat till 3 in the morning while crocheting together. I am so excited for this new life you are carrying and I'm praying that we will meet Ender or Noa in a few months... I know you will be busy exploring and enjoying Hawaii, but make time for pics and posts on your blog! I also look forward to the art you produce once your creativity explodes from all the gorgeous surroundings you will take in!
You made my last few months in Virginia Beach so wonderful...and memorable. I think of you often and decided to make a public post that I know you will read once you arrive in you new home. Enjoy your time living in Paradise...and I hope that you get transferred to DE in 3 years!!!
PS-
*just a subtle hint*
don't you think it's time to start texting again??? PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE??? It's just about the only form of communication I am able to have these days.
*again, just a subtle hint!*
PSS-
I smiled when I unwrapped our 'Soul Sisters' Christmas ornament from last year...a tear of joy come to my eye as I placed the ornament on my tree and thanked God for your genuine love for me and my family!

BFF

2011-12-15T05:00:00.000-05:00

these two boys are such good friends. When Ezra was a newborn baby, people would often ask me how close in age they were. When I replied that they were 14 1/2 months apart, the standard response was... My! You are one busy lady but they are gonna be such good buddies when they get older!

I'm so thankful the Lord has answered this momma's request for

these 2 boys to be best buds...

I love that when they sit next to each other, they like to touch.
I asked them to go sit by the fence for a picture,
and they naturally sat just like this....side touching side. *love*

(one night while getting the boys tucked in bed, I was blessed to hear this unprompted exchange between the 2 of them)...

Titus: Ezra, your my best friend

Ezra: (very passionately) well, I don't like it when you breathe your nasty breath on me!

*followed by giggles from mommy*

embracing

2011-12-14T05:00:00.000-05:00

Not quite yet, but I'm working on it. Mommyhood to 4 boys so young is so much fun...but I'm noticing so many changes in my personal appearance. Wrinkles, gray hairs, chubby areas, bags under my eyes, a brain that seems to misfire far more than it hits the target, stiff joints, age spots, greasy hair (most days)...etc. Yes, most days, I hide from the camera, but this particular day...I embraced it. I had been snapping pictures of my boys on the swings while playing outside with them. Mind you, my idea of playing outside used to be cooking mudd pies, having picnics with my baby dolls, and playing tag. Now, my idea of playing outside consists of dodging pretend bullets, playing tackle football with Titus while trying to keep up with the soccer ball Ezra is kicking my way and trying to dodge the basketball Simeon loves to "pass" as hard as he can. Whew, that may sound exaggerated, but believe me, even neighbors have noticed. Oh, and might I add that with these 4 little boys....It is NEVER too cold to go outside and play. I'm amazed at what these boys will endure in order to get outside for a few minutes. However, I love hearing the carefree laughs and squeals of excitement....coming from me! Oh how I want to savor every afternoon of playtime and every insane moment of tackle boccerball So, Here's to motherhood! Anybody else ready to come out from hiding????

confessions (prayer requests) of a 5 year old

2011-12-13T05:00:00.000-05:00

Confession 1:

A few weeks ago in school, Titus told his teacher he had a prayer request:

Teacher: what is your request Titus?

Titus: It's for my dad.

Teacher: Okay, what about your dad?

Titus: Pray the my dad does a good job on his lie contest today!

(his interpretation of what a polygraph was)

Confession 2:

In Children's church one Sunday, the teacher was telling the children about the 12 sons who the 12 tribes of Israel were named after. Titus was listening intently and raised his hand.

Teacher: yes, Titus?

Titus: We have 4 boys in my family and my mom can't take care of us.

So, there you have it, folks! I had to laugh because if I allowed myself to think about it I might have cried. Plus, he is 100% correct! I do hope that they see I fail miserably in caring for them perfectly....but that I humbly trust in Jesus who is the perfect caregiver to convict me, forgive me, and strengthen me each and every moment.

Hallelujah, All I have is Christ

Hallelujah, Jesus is my life!

adoration

2011-12-12T01:32:00.000-05:00

yes, Levi adores:

me...His dairy queen

and Simeon, his never ending source of stimulation, entertainment, and danger *smile*

Santa's Slaves...er...elves...better yet, Slelves

2011-12-11T01:20:00.000-05:00

When my mother in law was here for Levi's arrival, she introduced my boys to working in their 'office' in our basement. They have had so much fun creating and crafting together around the office table. It is also very important to add that they each have a special name that they like to be called while working in the office...and they picked them all by themselves, can you tell???

Anywho, now that it's Christmas time, we have started calling the 'office' our 'elf headquarters or workshop'. These boys have been hard at work creating all sorts of special Christmas surprises! however, they do feel that it would be good Quality control for Martha Melody (mama B) to come back and tweak a few creations:) I guess Gloria (me) isn't as effective!

Toby (Titus) and Dolphin (ezra)

beading

And where is Steven (Simeon) you may ask. well, he is usually strapped into his booster seat working away with us. I just neglected to snap his photo. He is actually quite good at making bracelets and coloring and is trying his hardest to master scissors.

Proud moment

2011-12-10T01:37:00.000-05:00

He finally did it! He worked at it all summer and finally killed a fly by smacking it with his bare hand.

What a talent to add to your list, Ezra. You truly never cease to amaze me...and make me laugh

here's looking at you, kid

2011-12-09T01:14:00.000-05:00

I couldn't help but snap this photo after I looked over my shoulder and saw this cutie peeking over the highchair tray.

So happy together

2011-12-08T01:12:00.000-05:00

pudgy pouter

2011-12-07T01:10:00.000-05:00

the cutest eye sores

2011-12-06T05:00:00.000-05:00

I'm not sure if I snapped these pictures because I couldn't believe how painful it was to look at these outfits....or if I snapped this picture because of how painful it was for my eyes to try and process this much energy as well as fashion FOULS BEFORE 7:00am.

yes, my boys take to heart "...early to rise makes a man healthy wealthy and wise". But this particular morning....they had layered up with the winter duds that were packed away in the closet so that they could go outside and play in the RAIN. yes, you read that correctly, RAIN. which being interpreted in mommy lingo actually reads LAYERS of WET BULKY WINTER CLOTHES piled in the floor after their 4 minute adventure in the rain MAKES FOR AN EXTRA LARGE LOAD OF LAUNDRY before 7:00am:) let alone the standard 2 loads I do a day. *giggle* I honestly couldn't keep up that morning with what greeted me and it was one of those moments I had to laugh or I would have probably closed my eyes and crawled into hiding realizing I was already behind and scrambling to catch up/keep up with them and it wasn't even 7:00am.......I remember watching them play for those few minutes and trying to suck down my coffee lifeline preparing for all the adventures (and cleanups) the day had for me.

And to think....I used to feel that anything before 10:00am was early!

Skull Day

2011-12-05T05:26:00.001-05:00

Today is my dad's big reunion with his piece of skull that was removed July 14th. So, dad, here's to a shaved head (which I know is your favorite hairstyle *ahem*) and a happy brain.

We are very excited for this surgery to take place. Several Dr.'s have encouraged us all to look for some marked improvement in my dad's stroke recovery once this cranioplasty is performed. However, brain surgery is brain surgery. And, although the procedure to replace the skull is no where near as risky as the surgery to remove it was, it's still a major operation. Please pray with us today for Wisdom, discernment, peace, confidence in God's sovereignty, and reminders of His Glory no matter the outcome.

and, just to make you smile, my boys have been diligent to pray for my dad since he 'broke' in July.
One particular night, Titus forgot to pray specifically for this skull procedure, so Mark asked Ezra to do it....Ezra prayed and he to forgot to pray for the surgery....so Mark asked Simeon to pray for the surgery, to which Simeon cheerfully replied, 'yes'.
Simeon: dear Jesus, jabber, jabber , jabber, grandy, jabber, jabber
Titus: (in a loud whisper across the room that I think only Simeon was supposed to hear) DON'T
FORGET TO PRAY FOR GRANDY'S CRANIOPLASTIC!!!!
Simeon: ok, jabber, jabber, jabber, cranPLASTIC, jabber jabber, AMEN

We love you Grandy.

We are thankful for the Spirit's display of grace

and faithfulness in your life over these last 5 months!

two times 3

2011-12-04T05:00:00.000-05:00

yes, folks, I now have entered for the 3rd time into the wonderful twoddler years *smile*.

potty training success!
Still working on some 'issues', but Miralax seems to be helping *smile*

Big boy who wants spikes like his brothers

This sweet boy is quite the ham! and also quite the little athlete. He is quite perceptive and is constantly surprising us and everyone around him with his humor and verbal skills. Along with that perceptive quality comes an amazing stubborn streak! He climbs anything except the bare walls and runs and jumps better than most 4 year olds. I really should take a picture of this little guys impressive calves....they are proof that he is a mover-and also a good indicator of why this poor mommy feels like an old woman most evenings! honestly, staring at a blank wall in complete silence for a few minutes at night before collapsing into bed at 8:30pm is my favorite 'post-kids in bed' routine! But, what better to expend my energy on each and every day!

Simple sweetness

2011-12-03T08:40:00.000-05:00

Words cannot even describe the thoughts/feelings/emotions that this picture stirs up within me. I can honestly say that this simple sweet moment captured on film leaves me humbled and speechless as I worship the generous Creator who bestowed all 5 of these unimaginably good gifts to me. I hope your hearts are drawn to worship today as you reflect on the families God has so generously given to you!

John 1:3

Through Him all things were made; without Him nothing was made that has been made.

Garda

2011-12-02T05:30:00.000-05:00

He is gonna hate that I put this picture up....he did not want to pose for this picture,
but I thought it added so much character to this lengthy post

I simply must rejoice in the goodness of God in providing for us so faithfully over the last year! We moved to DE February 28th and Mark started looking for employment the very next week. We knew the Lord would work mightily...and He has!

Mark was able to get some hours with the school system substitute teaching last spring shortly before the end of the school year.

We were at complete odds on starting up a Brumbaugh Lawncare here in Delaware, but the need arose and the Lord provided some equipment to open up Brumbaugh Lawncare LLC in May of 2011. Needless to say, it was an incredible challenge and joy to see the Lord provide accounts one by one. However, building a business from scratch takes time so we knew that we would need another option once the cutting season ended. We were specifically praying for a job that would still facilitate ministry at Trinity as well as income to pay the bills through the process of growing this business.

One day in August, Mark was driving down the main highway here in Dover going into local businesses marketing Brumbaugh Lawncare in hopes of acquiring some new contacts/contracts. The Lord put it in his mind to walk into a business (which had no grounds to maintain) called Garda and ask if they were hiring any positions. No- was the response he was given, so he just had a casual conversation with the guy behind the counter. The Lord orchestrated the conversation to flow so smoothly and before Mark left, the man reached over and gave Mark an application and encouraged him to fill it out and bring it back because there may or may not have been a position opening up:) Mark filled out the application ASAP and dropped it off after he dropped me off at the hospital to be induced with Levi....obviously, it was our 4th:)

That began the 2-1/2 month process of step after step in their hiring process.

fingerprinting and background check

drug test

physical

polygraph

State police clearance to carry a weapon

pistol course (he will be taking this in December)

The Lord allowed Mark to begin this new job with Garda November 21st and we are thrilled with just how God has been to meet this need.

It is a full-time position, which will require about 50-55 hours a week. And...he is not allowed to use his phone or even have it turned on while on the clock! That's an adjustment-considering he is gone 11 hours a day driving an armored vehicle all over Delaware delivering money to ATM's, Bank's, and retailers! Maybe just a little bit of risk involved there...but I am so thankful to be reassured that nothing can thwart the plan God has for Mark's days here on this earth.

Our plan is to be able to hire someone to work Brumbaugh Lawncare this next year and continue to pursue more accounts. Our long term goal is for Brumbaugh Lawncare to work Mark out of his Garda job so that he is freed up for more ministry involvement at Trinity Church. We have enjoyed this season of flexibility over the last year and now, we are excited to begin this new stage of our lives. Who knows what God has in store....but I do know that By Faith we will see the hand of God moving and directing our steps!

'Tis the season

2011-12-01T23:19:00.000-05:00

just some fun with this sweet easy going kid..

My dates

2011-11-30T05:19:00.000-05:00

every Wednesday and Friday our local McDonald's has $1.99 happy meals.
The boys got some McDonalds gift cards in the mail from Mimi and Grandy...so, I instinctively took them for a bargain meal and explained that because we got the sale price...we could do this special date 2 times. *smile*
Just what they need, right? Hey, come on....it's a balanced meal as long as you get chocolate milk, agreed??
Well, this is a special McDonalds for my boys, because this is the last place where their Grandy took them before he "broke". Monday night, July11, 2011 the boys and their mimi and grandy came here to get ice cream cones and they had a wonderful time eating them outside and discovering all sorts of secret passage ways their fun came to an abrupt end when they notice a homeless man standing nearby. To this day, they talk about those adventures from that night....and always end the descriptive story with how they had to leave because that scary man scared them away. Who knew that just about 12 hours later we would be on our way to be with my dad in the ER??
They look forward to going again with Grandy to this McDonalds...so, dad, keep working hard and getting stronger!

update on dad

2011-11-29T05:32:00.000-05:00

I know many of you keep updated on my dad via caring bridge, so I won't take time to update all the medical details, but rather update with some pictures of Grandy and all his new toys:)

meeting Levi for the first time...Levi was 2 weeks old. have I mentioned he is a big baby??? *smile*

Simeon's favorite spot...as soon as he saw my dad sitting in his wheelchair at home...he started trying to climb up. He loves to sit here and ride around

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Ezra enjoys pushing the chair and is not one bit phased by any of the changes to Grandy. He is a Grandy's boy!!!!

some special visitors singing to my dad...but do you notice Ezra??? he investigates everything by touching, pushing buttons, opening, licking, tapping.....and yes, often breaking things. He loves getting under Grandy's special bed and "fixing" it. we have found him under there with tools on more than one occasion. cute, yes, but you can easily see how all these new toys add to my level of stress!!! These are a lot more expensive to replace than most things the boys explore. We have had several talks about these "toys"....but as a mother of 4 boys, I am learning that you can only control so much.

This last weekend we went and visited to celebrate the boys' birthdays. My dad is getting so much stronger!!

My dad's Cranioplasty is scheduled for December 5th, 2011. We are praying that this reunion with his skull goes smoothly and that there is marked improvement in his strength as a result. Please pray with us!!

11.11.11 11:11

2011-11-28T05:46:00.000-05:00

we were waiting at the Dr's office at the exact moment in history

Ezra decided to add to the equation 1sock off and 1 sock on. He is so clever

Titus wasn't with us, so his activity wasn't documented:( and Mark was in a meeting with a CPA...so I didn't subject him to stopping to take a picture.

But...it's documented!

just a moment

2011-11-27T05:16:00.000-05:00

yes, life is crazy these days, but absolutely wonderful!

however, there are moments that this expression best summarizes how my brain feels:)

This picture was a complete accident....but quite expressive!

Can you guess

2011-11-26T05:09:00.000-05:00

Just wondering if anyone wants to take a guess at what I've been doing a lot of recently:)

he sat so still for almost 30 seconds while I ran and grabbed the camera....and a tissue.

now, that's talent for a 2 month old!

hay, hay, the gangs all here

2011-11-25T16:49:00.001-05:00

We don't have leaves in our neighborhood.

So, we imported some hay and let the boys have

a *hay* of a good time:)

Baptism Celebration

2011-11-25T16:21:00.001-05:00

What a joy it was to celebrate Baptism with these 4 believers 2 Sunday's ago.

Rich

Dallas

Laura

Cathy-it's not the whole testimony

Redeeming Halloween: Leave the light on

2011-11-25T15:07:00.001-05:00

I read a great article last year on Justin Taylor's blog about praying through the potential of using Halloween to serve the community. We studied through Tim Keller's Gospel in life series in our small group this summer and he encourages the group to practice living the gospel together by serving the community as a group. I understand the touchy nature of Halloween and I too agree that it must be dealt with carefully and prayerfully. There were days my heart winced a bit as my boys talked about the Halloween party...but more importantly, it gave me an opportunity to explain that we were not celebrating Halloween, rather trying to serve our neighbors who were going to be walking all over the neighborhood and having a good time. Our goal was to just enhance their celebration by greeting them with a warm smile and handing them a warm drink on their cold night out and about! Truly, the Lord more than abundantly answered our prayers and we are thrilled with how the evening went. So, here are some pictures...very random and very few, but I was busy mixing hot chocolate and cider, passing out candy, and talking (my favorite part), so, my photo's were a bit on the back burner.

simple set up. we had a few more pumpkins as each family was asked to bring a carved pumpkin, but the fare was simple and had to be grab 'n go. Cookies and hot drinks for the adults...candy for the kids (good candy, you know, the kind they remember and want to come back for the next year *wink*wink!) and we had a fire pit for warmth and marshmallows:)

Mingling in the front yard. We wanted to have lots of people so that conversation
flowed easily and gave way to casual conversation

just had to post a picture of some men that I am very grateful the Lord has at Trinity church. (left to right- Mike and Dan our pastors, Nick-whom my boys adore, and Mark- my sweetheart:)

Pirate Titus

We had close to 50 people here that night to help this thing go smoothly. Hannah and Alethea kept the kids busy with games and activities outside so that there were about 25 kids running around having a great time. We wanted the entire event to be outdoors and everyone to have a part. So, the kids played games and were encouraged to meet some new kids...and pass out candy if they wanted.

more mingling....and no, these are not their costumes! Obviously, it's hunting season here!

My little Monkey

Mike trying to keep Levi warm...it was quite chilly that night!

Mark, busy serving up some warm cider and hot chocolate.....and it was BUSY!

Obviously, Levi is well loved and cared for by many people

Some trick or treaters enjoying roasting marshmallows over the warm fire.

I didn't get the picture of our cup-o-soup dinner we shared together before the festivities began...but it was a hit and all-in-all it was a wonderful evening. We were able to meet several families in our neighborhood and chat with them casually. We are hoping to have a few families over for dinner in the near future, and are excited that God has placed us at 32 Stockton Lane for a few more months and that He so graciously provided us an easy outlet to meet so many in our immediate community! When else is the entire neighborhood outside, carefree, and happy to chat? Lordwilling, we'd love to do it again next year...and I'd encourage you to pray and think about the possibility of redeeming halloween in your community!

The future

2011-10-09T08:15:00.000-04:00

A glimpse into the future

of

30 years

2011-10-07T08:07:00.000-04:00

HAPPY

30th

Birthday

Mark

You have been granted 30 (quite) productive years...

Brains

Braun

a Beauty

and

BOYS

Enjoy your special surprise visit with so many treasured family members!!

we will look forward to getting 30 year old hugs from you when you get back to the crazy chaos you have been so graciously stewarded with!

What a beautiful sight

2011-09-15T17:04:00.000-04:00

It may just look like a pile of clothes to the untrained eye...but to the mommy trained eye this pile of clothes marks the beginning of a new era in the Brumbaugh household!
I snapped this Picture to commemorate Titus' first load of laundry that he folded all by himself! WOW! he has been practicing folding laundry for several weeks and then his little friend Derek Lane came over one afternoon to play...I secretly employed Derek's incredible laundry capabilities to demonstrate to Titus the proper technique and ease of doing laundry. Vwallah! What a blessing this has already been to me on several occasions seeing as how I must do laundry everyday in order to keep on top of this task...and some days, well...anyone with multiple kiddos can attest to the fact that somedays, one load can take ALL DAY to complete! What a blessing it has been to our family to have Titus serve us in this way! ...and did I mention Ezra is getting pretty into it as well-HALLELUJAH!!! Can you hear me singing in Delaware???

Kindergarten

2011-09-12T12:50:00.000-04:00

Today was Titus' first day of Kindergarten!

What a pleasure it has been to have this little boy home with me for these past 4 3/4 years! However, he was extra excited to pack up his bookbag and learn to pack his lunch so that he could begin Kindergarten today.


And what an extra special treat for Mamaw to be here for the big occasion! She made him the most fantastic peanut butter and jelly sandwich packed full of love!!


So proud and happy for our Big boy. It does feel surreal to be entering this phase! Mark told me that Titus was such a little man when he arrived...and I can't wait for him to get home and tell us all about his big day!

he begged to wear his daddy's camo hat to match his camo backpack...so after a few hatless pics, he was quite happy to be given the prized hat for the day

Best buds and brothers. I am looking forward to some special times with my sweet spunky spiderman while Titus is at school

Mark cuts the Schneider's grass, so Titus gets to ride with daddy in the big green truck with the mowers in the back....which just further adds to his joy!!! and, I might add, the joy of his daddy's heart as he will be able to spend some one on one time with Titus 2 mornings a week:)

My heart is so overjoyed as I think about this new venture for Titus and our family. He will be going to the Schneider's house on Monday's and Wednesday's from 9:00-3:00 where Mrs. Carol will be teaching through the Memoria Press classical education kindergarten curriculum with He and Eliza. She has so many fun things planned for them and I am so thankful to the Lord for answering my prayer on just what path to take for Titus' education this year.

Father's Day 2011

2011-07-23T05:49:00.001-04:00

what a wonderful day we had celebrating the precious gift of Father's

the first foursome fishing outing!

They had great success! Everyone of them caught a fish:)
This is Ezra's first fish which he so fittingly named 'Hamster'????

DELICIOUS food!!
We grilled some yummy:
Ribs
Steak
Local Sweet Corn on the Cob
finished off with fantastical loaded ice cream sundaes!!

Even the boys got in on the ribs action

and they even managed to get Grandy to read the final 3 chapters of Pilgrim's Progress to them. (and yes, I was a bit bitter! Come on, I had read them the first 999 chapters of the book...and Grandy comes and gets to finish the book! lol)

Grandy and his smallest (and sleepiest)...yet, potentially most adoring fans!

I'm so thankful for these sweet memories the boys had with their Grandy...and for the sweet memories I made watching them soak up every spare ounce of energy my dad had to offer! God's kindness was so rich to me the whole time....and as I sit and watch the path God has Sovereignly ordained for my dad's life, I am even more honored and humbled to have had these moments together this year!
Soli Deo Gloria

proof

2011-07-22T15:10:00.000-04:00

the 3rd really does get away with more than than the first
yes,
Titus-I'd never have dreamed of it, but I'm sure he would have tried it! However, I firmly believe I would have taken him aside and tried to correct the issue promptly.
Ezra-Most certainly tried it. However, I knew it wouldn't hurt him so I let it slide a time or two, then proceeded to correct and resolve this new love.
Simeon- tried it....loved it...and I sat on the couch and took time to video it. And maybe, just maybe I even put my feet up b/c I realized I didn't need to fix him a snack???

ughhhh-I Digress!

and yes, it's dog food from the dog bowl

picture of the year??

2011-07-11T05:00:00.000-04:00

Quite possibly THE picture that I'll always giggle at....

brothers

2011-07-09T05:00:00.000-04:00

Bad attitudes.......

Bad Breath.....

Best bud's

Anyone else remember this form of correction?? I couldn't believe it when the words spilled out of my mouth....boys, you are using unkind words and actions. Go sit in the chair and touch noses until you can be kind to each other.
I turned around after they had left the room and immediately began giggling as I remembered those words being spoken to me and my sister so many years ago:) I grabbed the camera and proceeded to observe. moments later I heard them calling for me and crying about how bad the other's breath smelled. I told them that their choice of sinful attitudes and actions was resulting in the pain and sorrow of smelling each other's nasty breath.~puzzled smile~ not one of my finest mommy moments....but quite the deja vu memory! (and it just so happened to work in the heat of the moment)

Just FyI

2011-07-06T05:00:00.003-04:00

For all you fellow mommies out there. Just wanted to share this information that I have recently learned.
Several weeks ago, Simeon came to me whimpering and holding his right wrist. I was doing dishes and he had been playing in the living room with his brothers....my back was turned, but I could hear and observe what was going on. I decided I would just let him work it out for a few minutes and see if any swelling or bruising began.
No swelling
No redness
Still whimpering anytime he tried to move it or I touched it.
He did stop using it after a few minutes. I took him in to lay with his daddy (who was in bed with a nasty migraine) and in a few minutes he had fallen asleep...perfect time to try and probe a little further as to what he had done/where the injury was. Couldn't decide if it was his elbow, shoulder, or wrist, but he was grimacing and whimpering in his sleep every time I moved his arm.
After 3 hours, still no swelling or bruising, so I sent T and E to a friends house and carted Simeon to the Urgent Care for further advice. he was a trooper....and I took this video to send to my sister while Sim and I waited. (we only had to wait about an hour)

Once they called us back, it took about 35 seconds for them to diagnose and treat this little fella. a few unpleasant seconds while they examined and popped it back in place...and then a few minutes to try and coax him to reach out and grab for something. Once he reached out and realized it didn't hurt...he was a new man:) Happy, healthy, and back to climbing in no time. however, Nurse Maids elbow is likely to happen to him again (and possible again and again) for several more years (age 4-5).
there's lots of info on the internet/you tube about Nurse Maids Elbow....so check it out if you have time. I had never heard anything about it and will now add it to my list of OTJ training in motherhood!
I guess it's kinda common in kiddos who have older siblings...or who have rough playmates. Again, Symptoms are typically:
*you have no idea what happened-your little one just stopped using his arm
*It is painful to touch and movement
*there are no signs of bruising/swelling.
Hope it helps:)

Delaware

2011-07-02T23:26:00.006-04:00

just a quick update on our new stage of life!
So many blessings yet, my time limits my ability to share them. We have enjoyed these last 4 months more than our little family could have ever imagined!

*We have been able to officially join the covenant membership here at Trinity Church. ~smile~... Redemption Church in Chesapeake, Va greatly prepared us for this level of accountability:) (just a plug that we LOVE you all at RC and will forever be thankful for the time God granted us to experience covenant together with you all! we miss you:)

*Mark has been able to begin a Pastoral Development Position which has truly been such a blessing to both of our hearts. My heart overflows with thankfulness at how God has placed such a desire and urgency in Mark's heart that was not there 5 years ago. May the Spirit continue to confirm and deepen this burden upon Mark's heart and life! He has been given opportunity to study and teach which has thrilled my heart.

not the best quality....it's a picture of a picture, but it will have to work for now:)

*We have been able to get plugged into small groups and learn what it means to be part of this aspect of the community here. Apart from Corporate Worship it is the highlight of my/our week!

*The Lord has seen fit to allow me to enter back into musical ministry as well. What an honor to come alongside the band here each week. My heart has been so blessed as I walk by faith in this new ministry....and Levi seems to enjoy it as well!

*Our boys are in HEAVEN with all the other boys to play with and my heart is greatly encouraged to see so many young men surrounding them with friendship and love. They are truly learning what it means to be part of the Body, even though they can't quite grasp all that this means.

titus (on the right) with his buddy CJ

erh. I meant wolverine man and his buddy the transformer
...and yes I have learned that boys LOVE playing dress up

*The employment issue has been tricky. I find myself ready to panic one moment and then completely convicted and encouraged the next. So many leads....but no real bites:) After 2 months, Mark decided to begin Brumbaugh Lawncare again. I say Mark decided....because my scared little self just wanted him to find a job with benefits and solid income. It took me several weeks (okay.....maybe I'm still not there yet) to come to grips that this is what our option was. UGHHH back to business--BLAHHHHHHH. However, God has allowed Mark to meet several new people in the community, provided a decent truck we could buy, provided a mower...and some equipment, and has brought 6 accounts to us. We are continuing to pray for more wisdom and accounts if God would have us continue this endeavor. Mark was also able to get into the school system here as a substitute. He enjoyed his first few experiences and said he basically felt like he was dealing with big toddlers. It's also the most he has ever been paid to sit and read books! (in the midst of keeping the peace:) Lordwilling, he will be able to substitute again this next school year.

the "new" truck. It's BIG, loud, and absolutely a blast to drive!

*So much more to update....but my time is gone:) One of the fun sides of living in Delaware has been learning about the Amish community. I've always been intrigued and a bit awed.....but it's been so fun to actually learn about and observe them! My boys are enamored with the buggies and horses in the parking lot at Sam's......and I'm always enamored with what the Amish shopping carts are filled with! usually, JUNK FOOD and..........disposable diapers! hahaha I felt so vindicated when I saw these women buying disposable diapers.

beautiful amish farms sprinkled all around.
This one is less than 1 mile from our house....
and yes, I do drive out of my way to go past Amish farms!!

18 month milestone

2011-05-23T05:24:00.000-04:00

it's official...he's 1 and a half. How does time go by so quickly...and how does it get faster and faster with each kiddo? Simeon is entering one of my favorite stages of development and I am filled with so much joy and thankfulness. What a kind gift children are from a truly magnificent Creator.

Simeon is such a little bundle of energy. we never imagined that our 9 pound newborn would end up being our smallest toddler! But...my oh my...what he lacks in stature he makes up for in speed! This little boy can run and loves to giggle all the way. He smiles and keeps up with the big kids as though he was one of them. I truly believe he is insulted when I pull him out of the mix for his own safety! His newest favorite is towel flipping with his brothers...and what a crazy towel flipping strategy this kiddo effectively displays! I feel as though I am getting glimpses into my future with 4 teenage sons running around my house wrestling and creating enjoyable chaos for themselves!

He is almost past the temper tantrum stage...but I believe he will always be my most short-tempered. Not sure why I think that...but it is surely shaping up to be an area of sinful weakness that I pray the Spirit uses to draw him to Himself!

This is what Simeon chooses to wear when his brothers put on their sunglasses
...He truly must think these worker man glasses are the ultimate!

I'm still adjusting to being all by myself on Sunday morning now that Mark leaves early.
Easter morning I was greeted with Simeon's idea of a hearty breakfast:)
there were cheerios all over the floor...but he was one happy little man!

he loves to climb....this is what I found him doing while
I had my back turned doing the dishes after lunch one day.

Someone noticed the pile of dishes that was mounting in the sink.
He managed to pull this crate in from another room...climb on top
...and start moving dishes from one side of the sink to the other
...chattering to himself the whole time. Mommy's little helper/destroyer:)

my little "ball" boy.
Anyone who has spent any length of time around
this kid can attest to his OCD fascination with any type of ball.

Today marks day 1 of potty-training my 3rd little guy. Here's to new tactics for a new kid with a new learning style and patience patience patience! I am assuming he will take potty training to a whole new level as each individual kid does...but I am assured that Christ will convict me of sin and show me my need for Him in this area of parenting.

I simply must confess my thankfulness and humble adoration that God would steward such a treasure to us as He has in giving us Simeon D Brumbaugh. Each one of our boys is so precious and with each child...God has shown me my feeble ability to effectively parent; however, He has always extended such grace and mercy as He draws my heart and the hearts of my children to Himself each day. What a wonderful Savior and Sustainer...and the ultimate Abba!

Phonemic Awareness

2011-05-19T05:00:00.000-04:00

So happy that this big guy has entered the world of reading! He is quite excited...and so are Mark and I. What a joy it has been to my heart to see Titus take this next step. I began working with him at the age of 4 and then stopped in January due to pregnancy and the big move. I started back to working with him on Monday...and boy was he excited when he realized he was not just making random sounds...but reading words!
I am so thankful that the Lord has so graciously shown me the resources and given me the patience necessary to teach this skill to Titus. He alone knows the specific needs of each of my kiddos...and He so sweetly and kindly answered a request from this intimidated mama for wisdom and kind patience. It's such a joy to know that every aspect of parenting is an opportunity to reflect God's glory and our great need for Him...even in the simple area of phonics!

And for those who are interested, I checked out The Well-Trained Mind by Susan Bauer from the library and as I read I realized that I was already doing most of what preschoolers do in school....but I needed to incorporate some intentional phonics instruction. I chose to use the simple Ordinary Parents Guide to Teaching Reading by Jessie Wise which I originally got through the local library. So, we will begin checking out the Bob book beginning readers from the library next week and I can't wait for Titus to feel the incredible feeling of reading his first book....even if it is only 10 words long:)

I'd love to hear what resources any other phonics packing mama's are using! This simple system has worked great for Titus...but I highly doubt Ezra will follow this same pattern:) So, I am open to researching lots and lots over the next year:)

Soccer mom

2011-05-17T17:01:00.003-04:00

It's official. I am a soccer mom. We have enjoyed these last few Saturday mornings of cleats...coats...puddles...mud...community...and family time. We had no idea Mark was the coach until we arrived the first Saturday and the assistant coach asked us our names and then proceeded to say...oh, so you are the coach. Mark has enjoyed the opportunity to ge to know several parents and kids of the local Smyrna/Clayton community and our boys have enjoyed calling him Coach Mark:)

It was a bit chilly the first few weeks, but 2 Saturdays ago we got to stick around after our session and watch several other kiddos from church play in their respective sessions. I still have a very limited understanding of the game...but at least I am still better than they are. Simeon, who has to sit in the stroller for the entire 45 minutes each week appears to be catching on fast...I included the little video clip of my catching him running around the backyard kicking the soccer ball after watching his brothers at practice. This video was also the first time he actually kicked the ball instead of holding it like a football.....I was impressed at his initial skills...so I guess I truly am a soccer mom who thinks her kid is awesome.

Titus knows this is serious business

Ezra is a goof...the whole time

Brothers and best buddies

Simeon's backyard debut...

How Dare You....

2011-04-14T14:29:00.007-04:00

We are doing great! Still hunting for a job....but enjoying the time of transition!
One of the incredible milestones of parenting is being able to communicate with your kiddo....even the first few babbles bring such great delight! Those first mama, dada, I love you, attempts truly melt the heart.....but as they begin to develop and test out new sounds and words...laughter is soon to follow! Titus and Ezra are both quite enjoyable to talk with....and I just needed to share a few of these priceless conversations.
All that just to introduce this first funny little conversation:)
When Mark showed the boys the ultrasound picture of the baby:

M: IT's a boy guys! See his part??
T: Yes. his name will be Levi
M: Yes, Levi Daniel.....now buckle your carseats and let's get home:)
T: Daddy, (as he was buckling up) what part do girls have??
M: (looking at me with a wide eyed glance) Well, Titus, girls have accessories...you know,

like necklaces, bracelets, earrings, and fingernails.....Ha!!!such a big boy..and boy does he love to talk!

next conversation:
introduction- Titus and Ezra LOVE to play daddy and son:) It's quite humorous...especially when Simeon wants to join in and they make him be the doggie....he's got that part down with incredible accuracy...and he loves to bark until someone scratches behind his ears....no joke! Anyway...Titus has been telling me for weeks that he wants to be a daddy, so one night as we were going through the bedtime routine I casually told him he had to be a husband before he could be a daddy and that we could start praying for his future wife. by this time he and Ezra were in bed and I began tending to Simeon.....

T: mom, I'm gonna marry Isabella
A: why Isabella?
T: She is nice to me in class (Sunday School) and she wants to be a mommy to a girl baby and a boy baby
A: okay....(just had to get my plug in at this point.....) well, Emma is a nice girl too (and oh how I would love to be truly related to Nina Whitcomb someday:)
T: huh... (thinks for a moment)
E: sucking his thumb and listening intently
T: okay...Emma is also nice.......I'll marry Emma
E: (very loud and very sincere) And I'm gonna marry Emma's Mommy!!!!!! lol
Needless to say...I wasn't too sure how exactly to present these requests during prayer:)

here's hoping Emma is one of my Daughter's-in-law someday

and Nina isn't my daughter-in-law!!!!!

Final Conversation
Introduction-The boys have been listening to the book of John on their ipod at night, naptime, and during playtime in their room.
This morning, I heard Simeon screaming about 5:30 and went in to check on him and try to quiet him down quickly before he woke himself and the boys up for the day (since they are such early risers...). He had pooped and was quite angry as I changed his diaper as quick as I could in the dark...there was no way I was moving him or turning on a light....So as I was engrossed (pun intended!) in my speed and precision as I tried to keep everyone (including myself) in a somewhat sleepy state so that this test of my mad diapering abilities wouldn't keep me from pillowland for more than a few more moments:):) That's when this conversation commenced:

A:(diapering with extreme precision and speed)
T: HOW DARE YOU!
A:(pause...oh no, Titus is awake......I'm not ready for the day to start......diaper faster)
T:How DARE YOU ...turn my Father's house into a marketplace!
A: (puzzled and trying to think where that came from.....
T: Mom, we don't know how to get to the marketplace!
A: (JOHN! he is quoting from the book of John! and he is wide awake sitting up in bed
looking at me... )
T: Well, I'll bet daddy can tell us how to get to the market.
A: Yes, (chuckling) Daddy will help us find it:) now lay down and go back to sleep:)
And thankfully......he was at least quiet and eventually fell back asleep....as did I. I guess 4 years of diapering non-stop has paid off!!!

I didn't exactly have any pics of my mad diapering capabilities...but this picture brought back a funny memory:) this is Pip (Mark's dad) last summer bringing Simeon to me and I figured it may help give a visual of diapering!

a quick catch up

2011-02-28T14:20:00.004-05:00

a couch of crazy happy chaos

What a wonderful month this last one has been! I can't believe it is the last day of February:) what an amazing few weeks these have been...
Things that I haven't blogged about...but thought about blogging
*Ezra turned 3 the end of January. We had a family party and enjoyed a few hours at the Chuckie. If you haven't been to a newly renovated chuckie.....you are missing out:) No pictures:( my camera batteries have died and I haven't replaced them....yes...in a whole month!
*I turned 29 in Feburary. No party, just a quiet and wonderful 4 day 3 night get away with Mark in Richmond. Most people would look at our time away and be completely bored with how we spent our time...but it was wonderful to just sit and stare off into the distance....sleep in till 8:00am...eat at whatever time we were hungry instead of sticking to the routine....walk around stores aimlessly for hours and still come away empty handed....sit at Barnes and Noble for 5 hours and not say a single word...just read and read and read! BLISS we also watched lots of TV and I sat on the Couch....yes just sat there until my body started to ache.
*I hit the 12 week mark for this pregnancy....or at least I think it's 12 weeks. I'm still miserable which is a good sign and I still have to say that it is still my least favorite part of the whole baby process. give me unmedicated birth.....newborn nights....toddlers running around needing you when you can't even see straight from exhaustion.....I'll gladly take it over the 1st trimester yuckiness!!! However, it's almost over and I predict it's a girl....just like I always do! God's kindness was very evident in that he allowed me to escape the typical exhaustion this time around. My friend Annalisa says she thinks it's because I live in a constant state of exhaustion...but I beg to differ. I actually had to take medication in order to sleep at night.....however, that worked to my advantage as.....
*I packed and packed and packed and packed and packed and packed and packed! Mark was busy training the new recruits for the business transition...so I worked my little nausea out of my system with incessant boxes, tape, folding, stuffing, labeling....oh and working through temper tantrums with Simeon. what a little temper that blonde haired blue eyed boy has!
*The last week all the boys were miserably sick and I was so humbled and blessed by the meals people prepared for us as well as the help with packing and loading up the goods. For sure, the last week didn't go as planned....but it was way better. M sin was evident as I fell prey to/fought off worry, fear, anxiety, anger, ....but my Savior was so faithful. The reminders that I am no longer enslaved to those sins were plentiful....but I struggled to live out a life that was enslaved to freedom through Christ....why do I do that? I'd rather fret than just freely live. huh, kinda sounds like something Paul addressed.
*Because of sickness...we had to leave lots of goodbye's unsaid. We plan to return in May for a weekend trip and hope to squeeze in lots of visits that weekend!
*We have arrived safely in Dover, DE and are settling in just wonderfully. Mark doesn't have a job right now and we are seeking God's wisdom as we walk by faith in this area. What a blessing it has truly been even though we don't have answers. He is filling out applications online and will begin pounding the streets tomorrow. Delaware is no place to be "looking" for employment...but truly our hearts are joyful as we look for God's continued work in this area. I look forward to sharing the news with you all once God shows himself mighty in this area. Pray for our faith to increase during this time....and boldness for Mark:)
And now you know the rest of the story
Soli Deo Gloria

bittersweet

2011-02-18T16:01:00.004-05:00

less than a week left in Va Beach...and my emotions are quite mixed.
Mark and I were married in June of 2005...
2 weeks later we moved to Va Beach. Alone:) in fact, we unloaded our own moving truck in about 1 hour so I could rush off to a job interview.
No shower...shorts, T-shirts, flip-flops...mapquest directions, sweat beaded all over my face...So glad I was headed to an interview at the YMCA...and...today...was my last day there. Well, I actually had to call in due to sick kiddos...but my heart was saddened at the thought that I am through teaching my absolute favorite kiddos with some of the most generous and kindhearted people I know. My adaptive swim class each Friday morning has truly blessed and opened my heart in so many ways. Those kids remind me each week of the curse of dwelling on this imperfect earth...and over and over my heart rejoices at the goodness of our King who will one day make all things New...
I must admit...my first week I was scared to death when their bus pulled up. I remember meeting the first group and thinking...what do I do now?? and now I sit here thinking...will I ever be so honored to teach another adaptive swim class? I won't sit here and recount so many of the incredible kiddos....but my journal will most certainly be full of the lessons and truths that the Spirit taught me as I served these kids and teens. I learned so much about the wonderful and challenging world of special needs kids-truly, an honor for me in so many ways.
And to think 5-1/2 years ago I never would have imagined I would miss my last day of work for sick kiddos......but what an honor it was to serve Ezra and Simeon today....I was reminded over and over of my sinful heart and my glorious Savior today......oh for the day we will worship without the flesh......now, that's a sweet truth to wash away these bittersweet emotions:)

Out of the mouth of babes....

2011-02-02T07:44:00.002-05:00

This morning I was sitting here at the computer and overheard the boys talking about the sudden downpour of rain.

Titus: "Wow Ezra, look at that rain coming down!"

Ezra: "Yeah."

Titus: "It is making puddles in the street."

Ezra: "Look! Our sidewalk is wet."

Titus: "Now how do you think that happened?"

Ezra: (matter of fact tone) "God made it."

God is the creator of the rain and all of its benefits. He used it to destroy and renew at the flood and he is using it to proclaim his glory to my boys. I am rejoicing in the rain this morning!

a new favorite

2011-01-02T17:45:00.003-05:00

of my sweetie and me. We have tons of pics of the kiddos...or one of us with an assortment of kiddos but I'm sure many of you with kiddos know how hard it is to snap a good shot of the 2 original members of the family:) So, I was determined to get a good one this holiday season to fulfill my granny's wish of having a picture of the 2 of us...alone:) I scheduled an appointment at picture people only to have to cancel at the last minute due to a pink eye epidemic...but who needs professionals to capture true love and happiness:) I must say...it was a quick add on to a hectic moment...but I am pleased with the moment shared with my sweetheart who was wearing short sleeves in the cold temperatures of our First White Christmas together:)

Dela-where? Update

2010-12-13T15:39:00.004-05:00

We are thrilled to report of God's sovereign provision of a home in Delaware. We had given a March 1, 2011 deadline to our landlords but were still struggling with finding housing/work. Mark has been looking for housing since December of 2009...and although the idea of owning a home in Delaware is appealing...the reality was quite unappealing. We knew God would provide exactly what was needed for the advance of His gospel and Glory in Smyrna, DE and we are pleased to report that He has provided a home for us to live in for the first year that is worth well-above our means at a cost well-below our means. We can boast only in His work for providing this home for us. May He use this home and our lives to further advance His Gospel in the communities of and near Smyrna.
Soli Deo Gloria

And We're Off...

2010-11-09T19:12:00.003-05:00

the mobility started with an accidental step 2 weeks ago (I can't remember the exact location...I'm trying my hardest to remember it...but Mark and I were both present and at someone else's house) and Simeon has wasted no time perfecting this necessary "step" in the pursuit of keeping up with big bro 2 and bigger bro 1. He is so proud of himself and I'm quite excited for him to enjoy the whole new world that awaits his chubby little legs:) Next week is the big birthday...my, oh my how blessed we are to have this sweet (and busy...the busiest thus far:) little boy as a kind gift from our Creator.

Dela..Where are you going?

2010-11-08T21:12:00.002-05:00

Yes that is right. We are going to the place a few people know of and not as many have visited. In a few months Anne, the boys, and myself will be making final preparations and moving yet again to Smyrna, DE to join the body of believers at Trinity Church. We are selling our lawn care outfit and moving to a new place. This is what we do know. The category headed "What we don't know" is a bit overwhelming to think about for any extended period of time, but we are looking forward to the good hand of God as He continues to direct our steps. We are not sure what kind of job will await us. We don't know where we are going to live. We really are not in the position to move right into a home purchase, and we are selling my income and the credit that might have been attached to it previously. It kind of feels like when we got married and moved to Virginia Beach in the first place.

Despite all of these uncertainties I am assured that God has called us to go and live among the people in Smyrna, to get a job, to meet new friends, to find new places to visit, to live life together with a new body of believers, and to worship Christ with them. We look forward to posting new updates about our move and how God is working. It is our pleasure to be a part of His plan to redeem men from among the nations and to pursue God's glory through a quiet and peaceable life that adorns the gospel of Jesus Christ in every way.

abundance

2010-10-22T18:46:00.003-04:00

I'm abundantly blessed by the Giver and Sustainer of all good gifts

these boys have been used by God to remind me so often
of my abundant life in Christ...such richness I do not deserve!

I think they grow an inch every night...

Let's Rewind

2010-10-12T15:09:00.009-04:00

a minute or two of unsupervised lunchtime...and this is what greeted me:)
(note: this was a moment of slight panic seeing as how we have recently been
given a much taller dining room table and chairs...i think it is called bistro height??...
which we love -the boys feel like they are climbing trees each time they get into their chairs for a meal
...however,a tumble off of this would most certainly land us a very painful memory:)
Let's Rewind

dumping the candle out of the holder...

making the lunge from the highchair to the table

managed to grab the spoon and Ezra's vitamin before momma put him back in his place:)

what a mischievous sweetie:)...

for those who are wondering...I snapped the first picture and then had Simeon reenact his short lived adventure...which he was more than willing to attempt a second time.

We've Moved

2010-10-05T10:52:00.001-04:00

Not to Delaware, Yet... but one step closer :)
here's the new addy for those who are interested

205 Green Springs Ct.
Virginia Beach, VA 23452

welcome fall

2010-09-21T04:14:00.001-04:00

it felt like fall 2 weeks ago. I got quite excited...and decided it was time to pass on the love of fall to my lads with these fantastic and easy ginger cookies. Silliness ensued...my table was coated in sugar...and my freezer is now filled with tiny dough balls of ginger cookies just waiting to fill our home with a favorite smell and taste of fall! We welcome you...favorite season of ours {mine}.

and yes...my boys love silly bands!
however, I need to explain my boys definition of silly bands...maybe in a future post:)

"after you roll them in sugar, put them on the cookie sheet with a little space in between them..." good thing they were headed for the freezer and not the oven.

note: I think its time for a new cookie sheet...don't you?:)

After many (3, almost 4) years of searching

2010-09-18T16:09:00.003-04:00

I found one!
I love it...
I wear it all the time,
thanks Mom!

just happened to be at the riht place at the right time...

2010-09-02T05:51:00.000-04:00

I'm very thankful for enjoyable moments in the car watching these 3 boys entertain each other. We truly have some GREAT traveling companions! We LOVE family car trips and look forward to many more giggles in the trips to come:) Titus and Ezra can be quite the little entertainers for Simeon...However, Simeon decided to try his hand at entertaining them for a change...and I was able to catch it on film:) So...here's to his first peek-a-boo attempts!

curiosity can be so entertaining

2010-08-31T05:00:00.001-04:00

Saturday, I was upstairs and the boys were downstairs. I could hear the boys playing in a kind way and then a few seconds later Titus came upstairs with a smile on his face telling me Ezra was playing with the milk pumper ( in the distance I could hear Ezra singing the gospel song over and over again). I panicked for a split second thinking Ezra was pouring milk so I asked Titus to further expound...then I realized I had left the parts to the 'milk pumper thing' in reach of little hands...as I walked downstairs giggling with visions bouncing around in my head of what I was about to encounter (and I grabbed the camera as I was sure this would be a moment to capture on film)...and I was not disappointed

the light bug

2010-08-29T16:00:00.002-04:00

we stumbled upon this simple form of entertainment several weeks ago...and I had to post this little candid moment of the boys chasing the 'light bug'.

Mind you...they had been smacking at this 'bug' for several minutes, but I am only posting this little moment. So before you begin just imagine 2 little boys intently chasing the bug all around the room and giggling as they tried to 'smack it dead'.

note: neither of them have figured out just exactly where the 'light bug' originates...and mommy and daddy hope to keep it a mystery! This little 'bug' has saved many a dull moment over the last several weeks! All they know is that we have one in our house and in our car:)

happy as a lark...at the park

2010-08-26T15:08:00.005-04:00

just had to post this cutie.pa.tootie pic of my big guy and his special new additions!

Sim is 9 months old and is a bundle full of love and energy.

He is busy with trying to keep up with his big brothers and
I'm busy squeezing all the love and cuddles I possibly can out of him before he starts walking (soon) and being an independent toddler.

He has transitioned to a bottle this week (Thanks to the 5 white additions in his mouth:)

and has actually started some baby food and formula in the last 2 weeks!!!

Time has just flown by and I'm thrilled with each moment
I have been given to serve this sweetie as he grows and learns.

Still have yet to get him to the dr. so I have no idea how much he weighs or how long he is...maybe this month:)

He LOVES the water...and as soon as he gets in he starts sticking his little lips in and starts blowing bubbles....I guess he loves his big brother swimming instructors. Too cute

I'm so blessed

Job Security

2010-08-24T14:48:00.003-04:00

today at lunch Titus looked at me and said,

"Mom, thank you for this peanut butter sandwich...it's good...your job is safe"

Whew....from the mouth of babes:)

Hope you have an incredibly wonderful day serving your families...and that your jobs are as secure as mine appears to be

??????

2010-08-16T05:00:00.000-04:00

Can you guess which movie is the new favorite for the boys???

Busy??

2010-08-13T15:08:00.004-04:00

just checking in to let everyone know we are alive...we are busy this summer just like everyone else in the world; however, I do feel that the Lord has given us an unusual summer of incredible richness and delight as we have tried to be diligent vs. busy "with the basics". Switching gears from busy to diligent is no easy task...and takes a great deal of intentionality: Thanks be to God we have the Holy Spirit to do just that! Since graduation, we have been given a little more opportunity to be diligent together as a family...and what a BLAST we have had!!!!
The gospel calls for a great deal of intentionality in our lives...and what a joy to work through so many areas and see the passivity of so much of what we do and have.
These are not "formulas for success" as we are so often given in self help books, sermons, or conversations...these changes are changes only the Spirit can bring to light and that truly do give such an indescribable simplicity and freedom to life in Christ.
It all started with 1 new year's resolution. I had no idea what it looked like...I just wrote down Simplify...and started praying for the Spirit to draw out areas of clutter (personally, materially, and spiritually) and to produce radical changes that could only be attributed to the Gospel's work in my life.
It's easy to be busy....everyone is busy.
Only Christ can make everything in life worth doing diligently.
Are you intentional for the Gospel in all your "busyness"?
As Christ followers, we are here for the purpose of Glorifying God through the Gospel's work...are you diligent or busy?
Don't muster up changes that you need to make...We can't do anything good apart from the work of Christ! Pray in faith that God will reveal sinful areas of clutter for the Spirit to radically renew because of the freedom we have through the finished work of Jesus! This gives GREAT cause for rejoicing in the Work of the Trinity in very tangible ways.
Soli Deo Gloria!!!

Christ and His Church

2010-06-18T05:00:00.001-04:00

what a splendid Covenant...what a Glorious picture...
Mark, I'm humbled to be chosen by Christ to experience eternal life...and honored to share my time here on earth with you!
5 years ago today these vows were expressed before God and witnesses:

I love you, Anne, and I know through much time in prayer that God has ordained this love.
Because of this, I desire to be your husband.
Together we will be vessels for His service in accordance with His plan, so that in ALL areas of our life, Christ will have the pre-eminence.
Through the pressures of the present and the uncertainties of the future, I promise to be faithful to you.
I promise to love, guide, and protect you as Christ does His Church, as long as we are both alive.
According to Ephesians 5 and with Christ's enabling power, I promise to endeavor to show to you the same kind of love as Christ showed the Church when He died for her, and to love you as a part of myself because in His sight, we shall be one.

I give you this ring as a symbol of our vows,
and with all that I am, and all that I have, I honor you.
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit,
With this ring, I thee wed.

I love you, Mark, and I know that you love me.
Because of this, I desire to be your wife.
For years, I have prayed that God would lead me to His choice
and I am confident that His will is being fulfilled today.
Through the pressures of the present and the uncertainties of the future,
I promise to be faithful to you.
I will love, serve, obey, and support you as long as we both are alive.
Christ told us that the wife must submit herself unto her own husband as unto the Lord. For as Christ is the Head of His Church, so is the husband head of his wife.
Mark, I submit myself to you as unto the Lord.

I give you this ring as a symbol of our vows,
and with all that I am, and all that I have, I honor you.
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit,
With this ring, I thee wed.

and what a crazy 5 years it has been! Who would have known that we would be celebrating 5 years with 3 little boys! I have been pregnant or "nurturing:)" babies for all but 8 months of our 5 years together-- that is something to shake your head at!!

For our celebration, we chose to stay home and send the boys on a sleepover...so we could just "chilax" in our own home which is always bustling with energy and the demands of 3 little fellows. However, I'm sure we will be able to include them in some of the celebration...just as long as they don't ask me to get down the Christmas tree:):). How exciting to share these vows with them and have a crazy party to celebrate covenant blessings and covenant keeping...and the One who is THE Covenant keeper!

Pictures

2010-06-12T15:30:00.005-04:00

I HATE the hassle of professional pictures, but I LOVE picture people and its the season of super picture deals...so, I ventured out-ALONE!
3 boys all clean, fed, clothed, and boo-boo free is quite a taxing process; however, they were champs! I told the lady that my desire was to leave the studio with a great shot of all 3 boys and a cute baby shot of Simeon. The picture lady worked fast...and we were in and out of the session in about 12 minutes! what a blessing these sweeties are and these pics really capture their true personalities. (sorry the pics are so small...I'm not really sure how to make them bigger)

my fav of the 3

stunning eyes!
he was all over that studio floor,
but she managed to snap this one in motion

my FAV and the one I walked out with
as his 6 month photo

Simeon's 6 month update

2010-06-10T11:38:00.005-04:00

He will be 7 months in 9 days...but I had to share some of the moments from this last month. I have many many more...but these will have to do for now. This month was a busy month for us with all our travels...but we loved being together as a family and we LOVED watching Simeon change into a mobile baby! Sim D with Big D in TN

Bananas anyone??

A quick bath in Mamaw's sink

Scooting started...and he is quite proficient now!
If he wants something...he goes and gets it! Quite a ball of energy!

Sitting up before he was 6 months. He was QUITE proud of himself!
I am pretty sure that he is quite motivated to move and do because he is watching his older brothers have so much fun together!

Another qulaification added to my highly sought after resume

2010-05-01T05:00:00.002-04:00

yes, it is finally time to add another qualification to my resume that is in such high demands these days....

I make people
I make milk
I make DIRT!

I started this science project 2 years ago this spring...making organic soil for my garden using compost. It's not much...but if the Lord allows me to steward more land in Delaware...I plan to have quite an impressive compost setup!

Some observations:
EASY EASY EASY
Very good way for me to "think green" - you can compost lots and lots of materials!
Did not stink...this one was my biggest fear! as long as the 80% brown with 20% green ratio is kept...this little baby keeps its digestive odors neutralized!
Did not attract nasty flies or rodents...even though every time I lifted the lid I panicked ever so slightly at the thought of something jumping out at me!
I got the article off the internet from someone who owned an apartment and wanted to compost on their little porch.....I'm totally convinced that ANYONE who has access to sun can do this!

got your giggles on?

2010-04-30T05:00:00.001-04:00

well if you don't....hope this little moment I was able to capture on video helps "get yo' giggle on"...it sure got mine and several other shoppers' giggles going

background: I rarely take the boys shopping with me; however, I have wanted to do a leisurely run to Target for months now...and since the prospect of that happening without kiddos looks grim, I decided to make the best of it with my favorite entourage. I was SO relieved when I drove up and the cart with the kiddo seats in front was available...b/c there is nothing more cool than a mom on her "leisurely" run to target trying to maneuver 2 shopping carts around all while keeping 3 BORED kiddos occupied! We had a great time giggling and rushing through this "leisurely" trip, but I got a little side tracked looking at some dishes. As my mind was racing/dreaming away, Titus started telling me that Ezra was wanting his bunk bed. Mind you, this statement was probably said 20 times before my mommy brain stopped ignoring the chatter and picked up the phrase he was saying over and over again....so I corrected him and said no, Ezra doesn't want his bunk bed he wants another cracker...(I'm still looking down at this point). However, Titus just giggled and said no mommy, he wants his bunk bed...and then it clicked! Is he sleeping? I asked through the giggles as I turned on the camera. yes, mommy and its funny....I must agree with Titus, it is pretty funny!

Take 2 - after several attempts to wake him up so that I could push the behemoth cart to the register......this is what happened (please note that he is buckled in...I'm not that mean!)

Needless to say, I could not get him to wake up and I had to maneuver this cart through the store with one hand pushing and steering this cart and one hand holding Ezra's head up. After I got to the checkout...I had to hit the metal on the conveyor belt loudly (with permission from the cashier) in order to get this sleepy shopper to wake up so I could empty the cart and pay.
So I guess I don't need to inform anyone of just how soundly this kiddo sleeps!!
All in all...I had a fabulous "leisurely" shopping trip that I will remember for years and years to come!

Ring the Bells

2010-04-29T07:08:00.004-04:00

Or at least bang some pots! (and warn the neighbors:)

sorry it is so bumpy to watch...but I had the camera clipped to my pocket

I had wanted to buy some firecrackers to set off...or at least buy some from my neighbors (but it seems they had used all of them up to celebrate health care a few months ago...:). However, they are not allowed to be sold until June so this had to do!!
When Mark called to tell me he had finished his Greek vocab exam and was coming home...the boys and I ran and got our pots 'n spoons (warned the neighbors of the looming ruckus) and got ready to welcome home one exhausted and relieved daddy!
And what was the first thing they wanted daddy to sit and do with them? Watch Fox and Hound before bed!
PS-I can't wait to capture Titus' response when he sees Mark in his graduation attire...that moment will be priceless!

Well Done!

2010-04-28T14:33:00.008-04:00

yes....that used to be how I liked my steaks, until I indulged at Sonoma...which is how Mark and I would have celebrated his graduation had the Lord not blessed us with 3 amazing sweeties!

2 weeks ago I was talking with Titus and Ezra about how important it was going to be that we celebrated Daddy's graduation from seminary. I asked them how they wanted to celebrate God's goodness in daddy's graduation......I told them that God had been so merciful and gracious to allow daddy to reach this milestone and we needed to "do it up BIG (extravagant)". So, as they ate their protein bars, you could see their minds at work. Finally, they had just the thing that most symbolized extravagant CELEBRATION in their minds that they wanted to do for daddy...and boy was it fun to do!

after thinking for about 1.5 seconds, Ezra's idea was
A Birthday Cake

after about 2.3 seconds...Titus' idea was
The Christmas Tree...which we renamed the Graduation tree

Sim's idea:
Decorating Daddy's car while he was in his last class...
these boys were beyond excited
EDIT: Simeon was not falling of of the car...I made SURE his seat was fine before I snapped these pictures!!

I have hopes that although they are young...they (Titus is the only one old enough to remember) will remember the extravagant rejoicing over the goodness of God in answering our prayers for completion of seminary.

My mind has been flooded with memories of the first days of seminary 5 years ago...God's ways are so much better than ours! I could share with you so many specifics that would make you chuckle, but as I worked this last week to celebrate in a way that my kiddos could identify with, I was struck with such amazement as I thanked God for giving me these sweet busy boys during seminary. Had our "plan" worked...we would have been celebrating with a fancy dinner....and who wants steak when you can eat birthday cake by your graduation tree with 3 admiring sweeties who think you are the most incredible daddy in the world!

2010-04-28T14:33:00.000-04:00

Tire Swing Torture

2010-04-17T21:34:00.000-04:00

you can thank the wind for the lovely
bouffant hairstyle Titus is sporting

The TIRE SWING!!! this piece of playground equipment floods my mind with so many visions from childhood! queasy stomach, laughing, spinning, broken leg (not mine, my friends), yelling "faster, faster, faster", etc.

Mark has been gone this last week at a conference (hence the opportunity to update the blog)...so needless to say, I have had tons of time with the boys...and tons of WARM WEATHER! On Tuesday, we headed to one of our favorite playgrounds and my boys ran to the tire swing wanting me to push them...I indulged their toddler delight...with memories flooding my mind while almost immediately feeling a bit queasy. As you can tell...my childishness took over just a bit and I decided to maximize on the moment for memory's sake (a video clip for me to laugh at for many years to come)

...on the flip side...

2010-04-16T17:00:00.000-04:00

We all know there are 2 sides to every story....

Simeon is just so stinkin' sweet -- literally

He got me on this one. Laying so sweetly and patiently as I tended to his older brothers...fooling me with tempting grins that were showcasing his chubby cheeks which were just asking for some kisses from mommy. I lovingly reached down, picked him up, and wrapped my arms around him for a big squeezy hug...and immediately all the sweet little visions in my imagination were interrupted with the balloon word GROSS being popped and flying out of my mouth with great exclamation. (hint-that whole balloon word line only makes sense to those of you who heard my story about swearing in labor/delivery with Simeon)

split second scare

2010-04-15T17:00:00.000-04:00

I know we have all had them...but it is such a different story when the split second scare involves your own child...let alone your infant! I experienced one of these moments with Titus when he was a baby and have had several more with 2 little boys running around exploring every inch of every playground between here and Washington DC. However, I had my first one with Simeon while on the most recent "study evacuation" in Tennessee.

I was putting Simeon in his carseat and decided to lift the seat up onto a higher surface before doing all the buckles. As I lifted the handle...I thought it snapped into place...and as I hoisted it up onto my forearm, the seat flipped forward throwing Simeon face first onto the rug which covers a concrete floor. My heart ached and my words were feeble...but God was near to me. I was all alone in the house, so I called Mark and asked him to pray...Simeon was screaming so loudly that I couldn't hear Mark over the phone...but the Spirit was ministering and strengthening! Simeon calmed down and Mark asked me to send a picture of Simeon so he could see if he thought it looked like anything serious.

As I look at the photo now...it doesn't look like anything much (this was immediately after the fall...and the bruising didn't set in until the next morning), but it is obvious when an infant has a black eye...and he did for a few days! Thankfully, we are all back to normal......but I now double and triple check the carrier before I lift it up!

Welcome back, my love!

2010-04-14T17:00:00.001-04:00

I loved you for so long...
then you had to go away...
but since the last school bill's been paid...
you are back with me to stay!

yes, Praise God for his provision! It was truly of necessity for me to give up coffee when Mark and I started seminary...crazy you may say, but one of the many necessary "crazy" things we did in order to stretch every penny in order to remain debt free through school.

Coffee???
but it is so cheap!

yes, but I am not a true coffee drinker. I guess I prefer a little coffee with my flavored creamer...hence the need to "give it up" for the last 5 years. I did enjoy indulging myself when I went home to mom and dad's...but I have been dying for that bill to be done so that I could "pick back up where I left off"...and pick back up I have! Mark has even mentioned to me that he doesn't think I have skipped a cup since February 17th (the day he paid the final payment)...and I will share that I can now drink it with half and half (another luxury staple back in the Brumbaugh home since February 17th) and no sugar! It makes me jittery....and we all know that is one thing I don't need....

**Pottery barn post coming soon**

Your going where???

2010-04-13T21:16:00.004-04:00

DELAWARE
yes...do you know where that is? Kinda funny that before I went to college in WI...I really had no idea where it was and I kinda figured not many people lived there. Well, in many ways, Delaware was the same for me.
Good News...I looked on a map and can tell you that it about 2 1/2 hours northeast (more east than north) of DC and people do live there!
God has made himself so beautiful to us in this whole process of "what's next" and I'm not sure I can do the entire story justice without seeming to ramble...but I'll sum it up by saying that
The Spirit of God spoke...and we are humbled and honored to be moving as He directs.
Can I even explain this? not really. Those of you who have experienced this, know. what. I. mean!
Sometime within the next year...(we will be out of our house by Dec 31st) God will move us to Delaware to be a part of the community of believers at Trinity Church in Smyrna, Delaware...and we are giddy with elation. Why? Like I said before...the Spirit of God spoke...and since we walk by faith and not by sight...that is great cause for rejoicing. And let me tell you...there has been some crazy rejoicing going on in this house with this mama who is seeing her sin everywhere she turns...and basking in her covenant relationship with Christ....How Great is Our God!

I'll post the details in a coming post...but it is so wonderfully amazing!
I wanted to post the lyrics to the following song...but I found it on your tube and want to include it. This song has been so dear to Mark and I...especially as Mark has been studying Abraham the last 6 months (hence the random Abraham post a few posts ago:). It just testifies and resonates with our hearts as we have seen God answer prayer over and over these last few years!

"Free" time

2010-04-08T15:18:00.008-04:00

...I sit at the computer with 5 minutes of "free" time to update my blog...
...2 minutes spent trying to come up with a catchy title
...1 minute spent realizing I am not good at that "Catchy Title" stuff...and I should work on it (someday...in my "free" time)
...30 seconds thinking about the need to plan my meals for the next week
...30 seconds in sheer astonishment that all the posts I have made didn't download from my imagination to the computer...must be faulty wiring (I'll have to check into that in my free time)
...25 seconds staring in the distance with a foggy dazed look at the whirlwind of a morning I have had (getting only 1 thing crossed off my "hope to" list amidst the constant disciplining sessions)
...15 seconds confessing arrogance at my constant desire for "free" time while God has given me the ability to glorify Him as I serve my precious blessings
...13 seconds posting a picture of those blessings...1 second thinking about how comfy this office chair is...
...1 second clicking the publish button....times up...the youngest blessing is bawling for me to bless him :)

be patient with me...my desire to blog is great, but my resources these days are quite monopolized...or should I say multi-opolized!

Abraham a pattern of faith

2010-03-18T19:26:00.001-04:00

Chapter 22 of Genesis is building a glorious picture of faith into my mental process and is affirming wonderful concepts as I review the character of God through this beautiful narrative.

Today I encourage each of you to read Genesis 11:27-23:20 and consider the God who brought Abraham through many years and tensions to a place of overwhelming confident, faithful, obedient trust. Then consider Hebrews 11-12 and the one to whom we look as the author and finisher of our faith.

If you are not able to consider this kind of faith or it's necessity in your life I emplore you to look unto Jesus Christ the giver of life and ask him for belief, for faith, for the ability to trust in Him for life. He said, "I am the way the truth and the life. No man comes to the Father but by me."

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Global Warming

2010-01-30T10:38:00.001-05:00

In light of the recent "overwhelming scientific evidence" I Mark Brumbaugh do submit another case study.

Virginia Beach, VA
--6-12" of snow in 24 hrs.
--It seems to be sticking to already frozen ground, and seems to be duplicated in numerous places worldwide.
--Seems to be pretty substancial evidence to the contrary.

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2010-01-29T04:00:00.000-05:00

smiling
goofy

busy
stubborn
sweetie pie #2 is turning 2 today!

a quick update

2010-01-28T22:08:00.003-05:00

Loving
my Christ and the stewardship he has blessed me with
...
Living
boasting only in the Cross as I am daily confronted with my arrogance as I serve my family
...
Laughing
so hard my tummy hurts!

pictures to follow...but not today:)

Fun at park on a 55 degree day in January.

2010-01-16T15:13:00.001-05:00

I had a few minutes so I took Titus and Ezra to the park today.

Still, Still, Still...the moment Ezra sat still

2010-01-16T04:28:00.000-05:00

I have posted before about the importance of Walter's Barber Shop,
so I won't rehash the sentimentality of this place.
During our Christmas visit to Alexandria, Ezra experienced his first visit to the shop...and what a memory it was! Ezra actually did a decent job of sitting still, but Rebekah was slightly out of breath and sweating after she finished cutting his hair! You go girl!!!

daddy exemplifying how to sit still...

notice Ezra's diligence in learning how to SIT STILL!

The above picture was taken so I could post it in my home and remember the
moment that Ezra David Brumbaugh actually sat still.

This is my favorite picture from the event!
I just love that you can see some of his hair cut and uncut along his neckline,
I love that you can see his little face in the mirror,
I love that he is sitting on Mark's lap,
and I REALLY love his little tongue sticking out of his mouth as he looks at himself!
He has so much personality and keeps me laughing all the time

Dum-Dums!
the extra special treat they give to all their customers...old and young:)

Generations

2010-01-14T04:00:00.000-05:00

I am so humbled by and thankful for the Godly heritage God has given to me! My Poppop and Granny B are such wonderful examples of faithfulness and sacrifice. I know my Granny checks the blog regularly, so I wanted to post this picture from Christmas for her to enjoy! We love you both and are praying for you to continue to experience God's grace as you journey through difficult times right now! Thank you for praying for us each and every day...it is the greatest ministry of all!

Christmas 2009

Poppop meeting his 5th great grandson...Simeon D